Anshid Aboobacker

In today’s fast-paced world, people often overlook the most precious resource they possess: time. While money can be earned, saved, or spent, time is finite; once lost, it’s gone forever. Yet, how often do we factor time into the equation when making decisions? Many of us unconsciously waste hours on tasks that don’t align with our values or goals, unknowingly trading time for little to no return. But what if we started valuing our time like money? Imagine this scenario: you need to pick up an item from the other side of town, and it will take you an hour to get there. If you value yourself at ₹1000 per hour, that trip essentially costs you ₹1000. When we look at decisions purely in terms of money, it’s easy to see what a waste it could be, but time isn’t factored in because it feels less tangible. People often find themselves in situations where they prioritize saving a small amount of money but end up losing precious hours. What they don’t realize is that the time lost could have bee...

Conflicts are inevitable whenever people interact—whether between coworkers, relatives, or friends. However, how you handle them can make all the difference. When faced with conflict, take a step back. Breathe deeply, stay calm, and reassess the situation before responding. It’s not always easy, but it becomes more natural with practice. Sometimes, the best solution is simply to walk away for a while, allowing the conflict to resolve itself over time. Some people thrive on conflict due to low self-esteem or a need for attention. Avoid them. Life is too valuable to waste on unnecessary tension. Surround yourself with those who support growth, not those who bring negativity. What do you contribute to your relationships? Is it tension or support?

We all aspire to master something—whether it's writing, programming, painting, teaching, playing an instrument, cooking, public speaking, or fitness. So what’s stopping us? It's not a lack of knowledge—we watch plenty of YouTube tutorials and read enough self-help books. What we actually face is a doing deficit . To become good at any skill, deliberate practice is essential. Want to be a better writer? Write at least one page every day. Want to be a skilled programmer? Code daily. Want to be fluent in a language? Practice it consistently. So how do you overcome the doing deficit?      1. Start small: Set a daily goal that’s easy to commit to.      2. Focus on the process: Don’t worry about immediate results; they will come with time.      3. Track your progress: Even if daily improvements seem small, tracking them over time shows how much you’ve grown.      4. Embrace discomfort: Mistakes are part of the proces...