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Embrace the Challenge

To build a strong mind, you must train it. And the best way to do that is by embracing boredom and discomfort. When boredom strikes, your mind drifts and you lose focus. When discomfort hits, anxiety kicks in, and you want to escape. But these are your opportunities to grow.

Seek out boring and uncomfortable situations, and resist the urge to lose focus or panic. Stay calm, patient, and present. This is how you build mental resilience. Take control. Push yourself. The strength you develop will empower you in every area of your life.

Reflection:
Can you recall a time when you resisted the urge to escape from an uncomfortable situation?

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