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The Value of Self-Worth

A boy asked his father, “What is my life worth?” His father gave him a small stone and instructed him to take it to different places to gauge its value.

First, the boy went to a market where an old woman offered ₹10 for the stone. Next, at a museum, a man offered ₹1000. Finally, at a precious gem store, the owner offered ₹10,000 for the stone.

The father explained that the stone’s worth was not intrinsic but depended on where it was valued. Similarly, our self-worth is not fixed; it’s influenced by our environment and how others perceive us.

The lesson is clear: Our value is not determined by a single factor but by the context in which we are appreciated. Embrace environments where your strengths are recognized and valued.

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